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Upset about DH having to look at escort services at his work :/

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Hi.<br /><br />Kind of just on here to vent…<br /><br />I just discovered accidentally (through looking at computer history for other reasons) that my DH of 10 months has to look through pages of escort ads as part of his job as a web developer for an online newspaper. I don’t know anything about programming, but I was always under the impression that he only worked with “behind the scenes” type of coding as a back-end developer, which would mean looking mostly at pages of text and numbers all day, not combing through escort ads with photos and stats of girls’ bodies (they don’t have faces in the ads). It’s not that he has to just click through the pages either, he has to open specific ads up and look.<br /><br />I’m so frustrated! I have brought it up with him but he insists that it is just for work and that it’s not a big deal… but it still makes me uncomfortable that he has to do that as part of his job, especially since he is a very typical male when it comes to women. (Don’t get me wrong, he loves me like crazy, and I know that he would never actually get in contact with these girls, for the moment anyway while things are really good between us) <br /><br />I’m a fairly sensitive person who is easily upset about things like this (this isn’t going to change about me). If you are a person like me (sensitive and easily upset about these things), what would you do? <br /><br />I know some people will tell me to get over it, but I think I’d like to go more in the direction of both of us working it out together, rather than just one person tolerating the other. <br /><br /><br />


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